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Don't mind your weight

Man is fool
When it’s hot
He wants it cool
When it’s cool
He wants it hot
He always wants what he has not

“Lose your weight and you’ll be great!” “100% weight loss!” “There is no need to make a mystery of the fact that millions of women are not satisfied with there …”
Stop! No more of this! Fed up! How much longer are we going to let these doubtful lines be our life-guides? How much longer are we going to spend money and time in vain? Every second girl at some period of her life was sure her life would be amazing if she managed to lose one, two or better three undesirable kilos! She could swear that there would be no getting rid of boyfriends and tempting offers from world known fashion designers if only she had a slender waist and skinny legs. No doubt you know at least one of these girls.
Wait… Why do I speak about some unknown strange girls at the first place? Don’t I have a more concrete example? It’s beyond doubt that the best example is one’s own experience.
Yes… that’s exactly what you’ve just thought about… I’ll tell you my own weight story. It’s not as fascinating as you might expect it to be and you certainly won’t cry feeling sorry! But you’ll probably find something familiar to you in my thoughts and behavior, as I’m the most ordinary “sample” of dreaming-of-being-slim girl!
I’ve never been the thinnest girl at school, but at the same time I’ve never had a nickname or something like that concerned with my figure or with my size of the clothes! We all lived quietly and peacefully when suddenly, our of nowhere, came the idea of being just like photo models from the pages of fashion-magazines! The girls at school went out of their minds! Oh well, so did I! There turned out to be plenty of ways to !
First, taking a short cut, I left off eating. But when my alarmed Mum stood in my way, protesting and convincing me of my natural beauty. Later a thought of running along the quay in the morning appeared in my mind! This was a second failure since there is nothing like a good sleep, and even a thought of a most beloved guy wouldn’t make me get up at 6 o’clock on Sunday morning!
So, here I am, still thinking that my legs are not slim enough and my belly isn’t flat enough and I don’t know yet that in a year I’ll change my opinion completely to the opposite!
The turning point was my trip abroad. I went to the USA and found the easiest solution: not thinking about my weight! I saw hundreds of quite full-bodied girls who made absolutely no ado about it. They all had boyfriends, they all worn tight jeans and blouses. They don’t restrain themselves from eating from eating cheeseburgers and swimming in bikini!
“Why kicking up fuss over my weight?”- I thought. Thus ends my own weight loss story leaving me exactly in the same in size. Surprisingly, I don’t mind it!
“Ladies. You’re beautiful no matter what your scales tell you” But the notion of the sublime with standard characteristics as 90-60-90 intruded into our lives. Oh, well…
Nothing is constant. Sooner or later plump women will come into fashion and make the skinny ones jealous! Instead of overworking yourself why not remember of a radian smile with joy, shining eyes? A beautiful woman is a self-confident woman! We are masters of our own lives, not our bodies!
Let’s be desperate to live, not to grow thin!

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